Misadventures of the frog princess

Whoever came up with that line was definitely genius, but honestly that seems impossible with my routine. On finally healing from my trauma and waking up front the blah, I can now finally say I wanna do things and I want to make my life better. I want to move towards my goal, take everything within my stride and just get there. But this passion and determination results in long working hours, excessive staring at the computer screen and constantly whipping up solutions and rushing through everything. This causes stress. Now the trouble is you can't always get away from the stress which stems from passion or your goals! Do you give up and live stress free? Even if I did that I know it wouldn't be worth it. What then? I don't know the answer to this one. But they say absolute surrender  to the Almighty works. I'm gonna give that a shorts will let you know how it goes.

I have had a rough week for about the last three months! The work is never over and there's always something new coming up. To top that us the monsoon in Mumbai isn't quite my best friend, the dampness triggers not just the mealchony of my soul but creates havoc with my sinus. Amidst these health concerns, and the god awful feeling at work, I wanted to run away on sabbatical. But my boss had a better idea. Work out of the office only thrice a week! Decreasing exposure to the damp wall in the office by 40%> Now I wonder, if his solution which is one to a problem the office caused, is something I should be thankful for or something that should have happened a while ago. I choose to stay positive, and count it a a little bitty blessing. I believe that it will lead me to better health in body and mind, give me time for the things I love and truly help me.

The deeper into your twenties you get the more you worry about how some dreams may never come true. Your metabolism decreases and you get fatter and with each kilo you pile on you begin to wonder if gravity is the only thing that's slowing you down? Everyone around you is getting married, having their second child and you're wading through the day. You begin to wonder where you're headed and figure d the first solution out. To me this meant online dating! Yea my life had come to this, what I hoped would never happen to me. I get introduced to Bachelor number 24, he doesn't look like my type but since my type isn't showing up I decide to lower expectations and give it a shot. It gets better, he seems nice. It's like he knows what I'm thinking and he know exactly what to say. After having ditched a rather clingy man, the space that long-distance provides seems refreshing. You doubt everything. You begin to wonder if he's the frog who will soon be the pr...

We've all had those. Sometimes is because something someone said or did and sometimes it's because the Universe decided to have some fun at your cost and everything just goes wrong. No matter what you did. If today was one of them here's what you should do; 1) Play a happy song on loop. If happy is annoying, play Daniel posters Bad day or Ed Sheeran's Thinking out Loud it's healing or relaxing at least. 2) Have some chocolate. And by some I don't mean a whole bar. but a little does help you feel better. 3) Talk about it. To anyone or at least write it down on a piece of paper. 4) Run. Go jogging or running or even a long walk will help relax and clear your thoughts. 5) Sleep. Know that tomorrow will take care of itself so just sleep. 6) Pray. God loves you let him know you need him. 7) Try and think of one positive thought and remember that it's okay tomorrow will be better.

When the pressure builds and the blame game begins you know that you have to put your best foot forward if you want to make it through. Life isn't always a bed of roses, especially for those who have more than half a brain. Everyone who feels the weight has had their naïve bubble burst, has felt cheated, left out, unacknowledged, bored, let down and fed up. There's an ego clash when you know what you are worth and what you assume people think your worth is. That is depressing and results in restlessness. It is important in such moments to take some time out and breathe, think, pray. The restlessness won't go away on its own it must be understood, accepted perhaps, but not in the form of restlessness, the acceptance of the reason behind the restlessness is what is needed. Bad days will come and will lead to a brighter tomorrow, what's important is to make sure it's the kind of tomorrow you want.