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Things to do before a blind date

The basic check list before you agree to meet a total stranger

I've had too many awful ones. Some not totally blind, but those meetings you gotta make not to hurt your mom or your bff who is trying so hard to set you up.

1) Pictures speak a thousand words:
If he seems like the kind of guy you wouldn't wanna be seen with, he probably is. Dismiss.
2) Detective Mode:
Check out social media for more real pictures, so there are no unpleeasant surprises later. Look for group pictures, a man is known by the company he keeps.
3) Tags and Shares:
Blogs and memes shared or tagged in are an indicator of his sense of humour. If it's extremely cheap and inappropriate, I'd consider it a red flag.
4) Bitter posts: A what's app status that is mean, Bitter or cranky could be a sign of a bad break up. Avoid him unless you want to spend the evening listening about his depressing life.
5) Online Scam:
If it's too good to be true, he probably isn't truthful. Ask polite questions, snoop around a bit . Make sure you know all there is to know.

These are the lessons I've learned so far. Hope they help you.

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